I come back once again briefly to explain my future absence. As God has called me to various things this spring and summer, writing will be low on my priority list. I will be traveling to Haiti for a week this month on a mission trip, and then in June I will be returning to Staten Island to serve as a long-term volunteer with MDS. The next few months will be a time of learning and growing in new ways. No doubt, there will be lots to be shared, I just don't know when time will allow me to do that.
As I go through different seasons of life, there is usually a song that describes my vision or what it is I'm going through. One that is fitting to this season of life is "The Power of Your Name" by Lincoln Brewster. I appreciate the lyrics of this chorus and it's my desire that my life would be a demonstration of that as well.
"And I will live to carry your compassion
To love a world that's broken
To be Your hands and feet
And I will give with the life that I've been given
Six months ago, Hurricane Sandy hit the east coast. As with most tragedies and natural disasters, we heard a lot in the news for awhile, we prayed for them, and then slowly many forgot about the people who had lost nearly everything they had. But on Staten Island, believers from US states and Ontario are volunteering their time to rebuild houses for families that still have not been able to return home.
Last week I had the privilege of traveling to Staten Island with a team from my youth group and serving with Mennonite Disaster Service. Over the course of five days, we worked with other volunteers in various homes that had been flooded by the hurricane. Our teams spent time mudding, sanding, painting, trimming windows, installing doors, and doing various other renovations. Many had the privilege of meeting homeowners and hearing their experiences from the hurricane. A few young ladies were busy at the seminary we stayed at preparing food and snacks for us and we were fed very well.
I think all of us were blessed to be a part of rebuilding and restoring what was broken six months ago. We were blessed with great leaders that guided and encouraged us throughout the week as well as for the time we were able to get to know new people and play games in the evening. We have stored up a lot of memories that we will treasure for a long time.
It's hard to explain what we felt and wondered during our time serving. The seminary we stayed at for the week was higher up on Staten Island in a neighbourhood of large, beautiful homes hardly affected by the storm. But only five minutes away, down towards the coast, many families had lost nearly everything they had. DO NOT ENTER was painted on a door next to a lot where it looked like a house had been leveled. Inspection notices were posted on many windows and doors. Debris and garbage was still tangled up in trees and brush. Many businesses in the city had not reopened yet and many business owners had just left. Some houses didn't look affected on the outside, but the insides were ruined. And other neighbourhoods only blocks away looked as if nothing had happened.
We were reminded how nice our part of the rebuilding task was compared to the people who had to come in after the storm, scoop mud out of the houses, and tear everything out of the basements and main floors. We had the luxury of coming back at the end of the day to a comfortable place to stay, showers, a big, hot dinner prepared for us, and an enjoyable evening to look forward to. Although we did a lot work, we actually felt pretty spoiled at times.
As I shared in our group devotional on evening, Jesus didn't separate the Gospel from meeting physical needs. When Jesus sent His disciples out, He told them to proclaim that the kingdom of heaven was at hand. But that's not all that He said. He told them to meet physical needs. They had received freely and they were to give just as freely. Jesus spent a great deal of time in His earthly ministry feeding the hungry, healing the sick, casting out demons, cleansing lepers and so forth. We are called to do the same. It's a demonstration of our faith.
Meeting physical needs often opens the door for sharing the Gospel. Seeing a group of people joyfully giving of their time and resources to help complete strangers and receiving nothing in return will cause many to ask "Why?". We went to restore houses, and through that we can show people the One who restores lives. Throughout this trip, I frequently thought of the song "Build Us Back". Although written after the 2010 earthquake in Haiti, I think it's very fitting for what we did in Staten Island
and a great reminder that Jesus is our Redeemer and Restorer.
I can't possibly share in one article all I experienced in New York. Our youth group will be sharing a presentation of our trip in the near future, so you may have to wait until then to hear more. In one word, it was AMAZING! We saw prayers answered, grew in love for one another, strengthened friendships, made new ones, and were sad to leave and part with people we had grown to appreciate so much in just a few short days. In short, I would love to go back and do it all over again, but for longer next time!
If you would like to learn more about what MDS does, how you can volunteer with a project, or give, please visit the Mennonite Disaster Service website. The work is ongoing and the need is great. If you have the opportunity to volunteer, I can assure it's an experience you will not regret. Please continue to pray for their work.
Ephesians 5:21 submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
What does it mean to submit to one another?
For any readers who may know me well personally, you will know that submission is generally not my favourite topic of discussion. I can be a dominating young woman and I don't always like the idea of having to submit to other people. But I have grown to understand it and I'm learning to live it, although not without glitches. Well, parts of it anyway.
I can understand submission to authority. God tells us in His Word that we are to submit to Him, to parents, to husbands, to government leaders, to our elders, and to every ordinance of man. It's not always easily done, but I get it. However, in his letter to the Ephesians, the Apostle Paul tells the church to submit themselves to one another. In other words, they were supposed to submit themselves to the ordinary people in the church, people on the same level as them.
This is something I have only come to understand in recent weeks, and it hasn't come easy. What does submitting to one another mean for my life? It means I don't always get my way. It means people make decisions that I wouldn't have made and I have to go along with it. Sometimes it means that if I let people in on my ideas, they have different ideas, and in the end, it doesn't turn out the way I anticipated. I may not even get any credit. And I have to be okay with that. I choose to be okay with it, not because I always agree, but to keep the peace and not cause problems and divisions. Also, sometimes what I perceive to be good for me, I can clearly see is not good for someone else. Then I yield my desires for the good of someone else.
I'm also a person who likes to have a plan and work my plan. Submitting to one another means I no longer govern my schedule as if it's all about me. I hold my time, my plans, and resources out to God in an open hand. If I lived on my own, it would be easy, but I live with my family, and sometimes my family has different plans for my day than I do. Sometimes other people have different plans than I do. So I submit and do my best to be flexible. I look to their needs and desires before my own. I still make plans so I can be intentional about how I use my time, but I leave room for something to come up.
These are a couple ways I have been learning to submit to one another. I'm sure in the future I will continue to have many more opportunities to practice this. How have you been learning to submit to one another?
In Gods at War: Defeating the Idols That Battle for Your Heart, Kyle Idleman makes the argument that idolatry is not an issue, but the issue. He explains how all sin and issues we face in our Christian lives are the result of idolatry and that it's not a matter of if we worship, but rather who or what we worship. He goes on to examine in detail nine gods that are prevalent in our culture and in the church: food, sex, entertainment, success, money, achievement, romance, family, and me.
Kyle uses a conversational style in his book and helps make his points through stories and fact/research study boxes. He looks at a few gods that are perhaps not often addressed within the church. I appreciated the Idol ID boxes with questions that helped identify whether or not something has become an idol in your life, followed by a section on how to replace that idol with Christ. I did find Kyle was a little repetitive at times. Some of the stories and humour gave me a good laugh, but there were some points I thought were a little "cheesy."
I thought this book was good, although not amazing. It helped me come to terms and address some idols that have taken hold in my life. It provides a good evaluation of which gods may be present in your life if you're willing to look at yourself honestly.
I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher through Booksneeze.com and was not required to write a positive review.
Do you want to walk with Jesus, or do you want Jesus to walk with you?
This thought came to me after I was reading My Utmost for His Highest on March 9 where Oswald Chambers discusses John 6:67. Jesus had explained that no one could come to Him unless it was granted by the Father, and from that point on, many stopped following Him. Jesus turned to the twelve and asks if they wanted to go away as well.
After reading this, I thought about whether I was walking with Jesus, or if I was expecting Jesus to walk with me. I do sometimes ask Jesus to walk with me, or be with me, when I think I'm going to have a difficult day. I want to feel His presence and I want things to go smoothly. Louie Giglio's Prayer: Remix series has challenged me in this, and I try not to ask God to be with me anymore, because He is already with me, and living in me.
There's a difference between me wanting to walk with Jesus and wanting Jesus to walk with me. You see, when someone invites me to go for a walk with them, it's usually understood that I will walk where they want to walk. Unless we come to a mutual agreement and we both know where we're going and how to get there, one of us is always leading, even if we're walking side by side.
When Jesus asks me to follow Him, or walk with Him, it's of the understanding that He's the One leading. If I say "Yes, Jesus, I will walk with You", I'm going to go where He goes. He gets to decide which roads we take, where we go, who we serve, etc. He gets to decide whether or not we go to work, to the mall, to watch a movie, or if we go to the prisons, the orphans, widows, to another country, etc.
However, if I get up in the morning and ask Jesus to walk with me, what I'm actually saying is that I'm leading the way and I just want His company. I want His God stamp on what I do, His blessings, and His encouragement on the uphill climbs. I have a rough road ahead of me and I'm scared to go alone.
The problem is, Jesus doesn't follow. The only one He follows is the Father. (The Bible doesn't say it exactly that way, but Jesus made it clear that He always did the will of the Father.) He didn't walk with His disciples. His disciples walked with Him. They went where He went, served where He served, ate with the people He ate with, not the other way around. He led the way, even if they were walking side by side.
Perhaps when you ask Jesus to walk with you, you really do have it in your heart to follow Him. Then we perhaps need to change the way we say it. Instead of saying "Jesus, would you walk with me today?", say "Jesus, I want to walk with You today. I can't walk this road alone, so I want to follow You. Where do You want to go? Where do you want to take me?" The scenario changes. Now it's clear who's leading and who's following. It's clear that it's about you wanting to do what God wants, not just wanting God's rubber stamper on your plans, as Louie Giglio would put it.
Where are you at in your life? Are you walking with Jesus, or are you expecting Him to walk with you?
The girls in my youth group are going through a book study again, and one of the first things we were reminded of is the importance of praying for our future husbands. Now, this was no new concept to me. I've been doing it for years. But it's something some girls do struggle with, or don't think of doing, so I will write about my experience. (And yes, I am still single. I have not seen my prayers fulfilled, but I know God is in the process of answering.)
For some, praying for a person you don't know is kind of weird. Yeah. That was probably the biggest struggle I faced when I started. How do I pray for someone if I don't even know who he is, or don't know what's going on in his life? The wonderful thing is, you may not know who you will marry, or what's going on in that man's life, but God does, and He cares about this area of your life.
You may not know the specifics of what is going on his life, but you can still pray. You can start by praying that He would follow after God whole-heartedly. You can pray that he would be a man of the Word and a man of prayer. What kind of character qualities do you want to see in him? Pray that He will grow in those areas. Do you want him to be part of a ministry or serving in an area of the church? Pray for that. Pray that he would walk in purity, that he would flee from temptation and youthful lusts, that he would keep his heart, mind and body for you. Pray that he would cut off sin from in his life and walk in holiness. Pray that God would use him in his single years for His service and glory.
Pray that God would direct his heart to you and have wisdom as to when and how to initiate and lead your relationship. Pray that God would prepare him to be the spiritual leader and provider for your home, that he would have wisdom in raising your children when God so blesses you. It's probably also wise to pray that your parents and other counselors in your life would have the wisdom to help you discern God's best for you, and allow yourself to be open to their counsel.
Now, remember, this isn't all about who you want your husband to be. Chances are you have lofty dreams of this man and, if you're smart, you're praying about some great and amazing things for him. I know I do. But if you want to marry Mr. Awesome, you have to be a woman suitable for him. So instead of just praying for him, pray that God will prepare you to be the woman, the help meet that he needs. Keep yourself pure, and conduct yourself in a way that would be pleasing to your husband if he was watching you. Honour him, even now, with your life. And keep yourself busy and productive, serving the Lord and others while you wait for God to bring you together.
I have prayed about all these aspects at some time or other, and most on a very regular basis. I admit though that there are still times when I definitely feel stuck. What do I pray for? How do I pray about this man? Sometimes I feel like I say the same thing over and over. One of the things I have done at times is ask God how He wants me to pray for my future husband. I ask God to lead me as I pray. Something changes in the way I prayed when I do that. At times, I don't understand why I am asking God for the things I am, but I trust it's His leading. One day, the purpose of it all will be revealed to me.
It could also be that as you pray for your future husband, or ask God to lead you, that you will start praying in a way you don't necessarily understand. You may start praying for qualities you otherwise didn't consider. It may be that God will guide you to pray about someone specifically. I don't know how God moves in everyone's prayer times. I don't know what He will do when you seek His direction in this area. But I encourage you to pray boldly, persistently, and daily about this area of your life. When you marry the man you're praying for, you will enter into a covenant that is a representation of Christ's relationship with His church. That's not something to take lightly, and thus, it's something to pray about diligently.
Some who will read this post will certainly be familiar with the song "Faithfully" by Eric and Leslie Ludy. The idea of waiting faithfully is not a very popular one in our world. Many may not understand why you're giving up pleasure now for something they don't believe exists, or why you're praying for someone if you don't even know who he is. Listen to this song. It may give you an ache in your heart, but I also hope that you will take the words to heart and commit to faithfully waiting and praying for your man.
I saw this justice video by Micah Bournes a few weeks ago. Like most videos by this word artist, I really liked it. Near the end, I thought you could almost replace the word "justice" with "following Jesus" in this video. There are many striking similarities between pursuing justice and following Jesus, and how it is perceived by the world around us. (Please watch the short video before reading further.)
Following Jesus does seem to be a very futile pursuit for many people. It doesn't promise success and prosperity, although some try to make it sound that way. You probably won't see a grand increase in the world's goods if you follow Jesus' command to deny yourself daily, take up your cross and follow Him. It likely won't be very profitable if you try to measure it in those terms.
The thing about following Jesus is, we'll never reach a point in this life where we'll be able to say "I've made it. I'm done working for God, and now I can sit back and relax until Jesus comes." No. We work until He comes or your physical bodies die. Only then have we finished the race. We can give up along the way if we want to. But if we understand the price Jesus paid, and the reward that follows, we won't.
Most people in this world don't perceive following Jesus as worth it. Many Christians at some point wonder if it's worth it. I know I have. (I also think our churches are full of people who are tired of the idea of following Jesus, because they're not actually doing it the way they should.) But as in pursuing justice, I don't think the question "Is it even worth it?", comes very often from those who have laboured for years for Jesus Christ, who have given their lives to the ministry, to preaching the Gospel. I don't think it comes often from those who have spent years in the mission field, feeding the hungry, clothing the naked, healing the sick, caring for orphans and widows, freeing the captives and being the hands and feet of Jesus to the least of these.
Oh, I'm sure they get tired. I'm sure there are days some have no strength of their own and only God's strength sustains them. But as tired as I'm sure they often get, I don't think they often wonder if it's worth it. They know it is worth it. They know because they have communed with Jesus. They have spent time in His presence and they have grown to have a heart for the things He has a heart for, for the people He has a heart for. They have developed a Christ-like love that empties and pours out self for the good of someone else. They have given their lives for the broken-hearted, for the wounded. They have toiled to see souls come into the kingdom and set free from the power of sin. Like Jesus, they have come to see that their lives are worth the sacrifice. And for those who follow Jesus like that, I think it would be offensive for them to be asked if it was worth it.
Where's your relationship with Jesus? Are you busy following Him, or have you grown tired of the idea? For myself, I admit I have at times probably grown tired of the idea. But I don't want it to stay that way. I want to come to the place where I commune and identify with Christ, where I have a heart for the people and things He has a heart for, so much so that it becomes offensive to me to be asked or to wonder if following Him is worth it. I want to be able to cry out myself "What do you mean, is it worth it? Of course it's worth it!" How do I know? Because I was worth dying for to Him.
My blog has been mostly quiet in the last month, but my life has certainly not been. A chapter in my life is coming to a close and I'm seeking the Lord's direction for what He would have me do next. I have ideas, but nothing is clear or has come together yet. But I trust that God is leading and is preparing something.
At the beginning of the year, I sensed God leading me to do something. Now I wonder if it is the will of God. I made the difficult decision to close a season of my life. I would go to bed confident I had made the right choice and wake up the next morning saying "This is ludicrous." I went from being confident to confused, not knowing the difference between truth or lies. I had sought counsel from people I trusted, and am confident in their wisdom, yet I wrestle within me.
As I seek God's will for the next season of life, it's harder to trust His leading today than it was a month ago. Weeks of inspiration, of sensing God's leading have turned largely silent. Things are dimmer. Fears are creeping in. I look at what I aspire to spend my time doing, then consider my financial needs, and wonder if I should just settle for "normal" drudgery again. I am hampered with temptations. There has been conviction of sin, and with it discouragement. I sit down writing down thoughts about how to serve others and how to meet needs in the next season of life, then my ideas run out and I get stuck. I fear that if I pursue this, people will misunderstand me. I'm afraid they'll look at areas of my life and call me a hypocrite.
I understand what's going on though. I know what's going on, even though I can't see what's ahead of me, even though at times I can't discern truth. This is war! That I know. There is a battle going on in the spiritual realm for my life. Whatever plans God has for the next season of my life, the kingdom of darkness is opposing it. Satan does not want me to yield to God's purpose. He does not want to see me bring vision into peoples' lives, to see captives set free by the truth of God's Word, to see broken lives heal, forgive, love, and be filled with joy. So he will meddle in my life. He will bring fear, temptation, and cause me to beat myself up over little things. When God convicts me of sin, he will play the role of an accuser, telling me I'm not fit for God's use.
So what does this mean for me? It means I have to fight. It means I have to look to Jesus, to the Word of God. It means I have to wrestle with God in prayer and command the enemy to leave me. It means I constantly have to pray that God would speak truth to me and that I will be able to discern it. I fight against a kingdom I cannot see, because I'm in the midst of a war.
As Christians, I don't think we fight enough. I don't think we're mindful enough of what goes on in the spiritual realm. Part of it is because we can't see it. Part of it is because this war is fought with intangible weapons. Our weapons are not carnal, but mighty through God and able to pull down strongholds (2 Cor. 10:4). Our greatest weapon is prayer and some of us are just too lazy to storm the throne room of God with our prayers. Also, we seem to forget, that in the name of Jesus, even demons have to obey us. We have to understand that and believe it.
God has not left us powerless in this battle but we have to use the tools He has given us to fight.
What kind of battle do you find yourself in today? Pick up your sword and fight!
Who Do You Think You Are: Finding Your True Identity in Christ by Mark Driscoll is essentially a study of Paul's letter to the Ephesians. As the subtitle suggests, it's about understanding our identity in Christ and each chapter focuses on a different aspect of our identity. He starts each chapter with a story and uses scripture to help the reader understand that we are in Christ, saints, blessed, saved, reconciled, afflicted, gifted, forgiven, loved, victorious, etc.
This book captivated me from the first chapter. Mark is very direct, his message comes through strong and clear and his words are thought-provoking. Yes, the book is fairly theological, but not to the point where it's difficult to understand. It helped me to better understand my position in Christ and that my identity is not shaped by the things I do, but rather that understanding my identity will shape the things I do.
The setup of this book is great. Mark references a lot of scripture, but he puts the references in footnotes, so it doesn't clutter the pages. Notes and references at the end of the book allow you to dig deeper into things without them being distracting. This makes it easy for someone to simply read through or study on a deeper level.
There were some theological points I didn't quite agree with, but nothing that would hinder me from recommending the book to others. I would definitely encourage all Christians to read it, and keep a notebook and pen handy so you can learn as much as possible. This could be a great tool to help Christians understand their identity and live victorious lives.
I received a free copy of this book from the publisher through Booksneeze.com. I was not required to write a positive review and the views expressed are my own.
This post is a continuation of Reflecting Him Part 1. Just so you know, my weeks aren't always that hard, and I did highlight the hard parts. I did get some feedback that indicated surprise.
What I began learning at the end of that hard week, and am still in the process of learning is to intercede for people even in the midst of my trials. To intercede means to plead on another's behalf or to act as a mediator in a dispute. The word is often used a term for praying for other people. And although I'm learning the importance of that, I'm also learning to go beyond praying for them. I'm learning the importance of reaching out to them personally.
You see, I'm not the only one with problems. I'm not the only who is going through or has gone through pain. I'm not the only one who hurts, who gets depressed, who faces family challenges, work challenges, who lacks clarity, who struggles spiritually, who gets sick, etc. I am surrounded by hurting, broken people who can't walk their road alone. I'm surrounded by people who need a friend to come alongside, to listen, to share their pain. Even if I don't always know how to help them, sometimes they just need to know somebody else cares, that they're not forgotten.
Think about this. It is possible that for some reason, you are the only one who sees another's pain. Perhaps other people notice, but choose to ignore it. Or perhaps you're the only one a person has had the confidence and trust to share their struggles with. Perhaps you've just experienced something that allows you to understand what that person is going through. Don't assume someone else will talk to a hurting person. This really hit me personally last week when somebody said "You're the only person who asks me."
Sometimes it's hard to make the effort. It's hard to reach out to others and to listen when I'm bogged down in my own problems. I'm working through a massive load in my life right now, but there are a few individuals and families that I have had to be intentional about staying connected with. I've had to be intentional about showing them that I care about them too, and that I'm not just dumping my problems on them, which I can do very easily.
There are days where I feel like I have a right to my "down time". Some people like to just "veg" and recharge. Jesus needed down time too. He needed time away from His work and peoples' demands, but most often, He wasn't just sitting by Himself in a mountain somewhere. He was spending time with the Father and recharging by His strength. No, I don't know what He always prayed about, but I think He probably spent a good deal of time interceding for others. And after that, He went and served them again.
We all get worn out. We all have hard days and seasons where we just
don't know how to keep going. Tenth Avenue North has a song called
"Worn" which has really come to mean a lot to me personally the last
couple months. It echoes how I have felt many days, and I'm sure I'm
not the only one. I encourage you to listen to it, and gather strength, knowing there's hope and this is not the end. Then look around for someone who needs your prayers and encouragement.
